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One Mom's Musings About Boys in the Dance World

My Dancer, Your Dancer and ADHD

April 21, 2012 by Nina 18 Comments

ADD, ADHD

Today I’m going to write about our dancers and how they deal with life. I’ve written about Julian and his struggles in school, but a recent development has made me realize the issues he has had in school since he was quite young actually also are issues he has had in dealing with life in […]

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Filed Under: Attitude, behavior in dance class, grades, self-confidence, self-esteem Tagged With: ADD, ADHD, Attention Deficiet Disorder, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, diagnosing ADD and ADHD

High School Graduation and SAB Workshop Approaching

March 31, 2012 by Nina 7 Comments

The end of the year is fast approaching. When it comes to dance, everything seems to be moving along well for Julian. His foot seems to have healed up, although I’m not there to speak to anyone. The physical therapist says after spring break he need only come back once a week, and he has […]

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Filed Under: Attitude, auditions, Ballet, College, college dance programs, dance injuries, foot problems, grades, Raising a Male Dancer Tagged With: grades, graduation, school work, Workshop

Summer Intensive Auditions End, REAL Auditions Start

March 6, 2012 by Nina 2 Comments

A lot has happened since my last post…I’ve just been too busy to write. I apologize. I’ve got a non-dance related book coming out in a few months, and getting ready for that launch has been taking up all my time. Anyhoo. Since I wrote last Julian has been struggling with his tendon tear. He […]

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Filed Under: auditions, choreography, College, dance injuries, foot problems, grades, performance, professional dance, recovery from dance injury, summer dance programs Tagged With: college dance auditions, company auditions, summer ballet intensives, tendon injury, Workshop

On to YAGP and 2nd Stage…

December 13, 2009 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Nutcracker’s over for another year. Julian did a great job. He looked quite regal in red and white, and his partnering was commendable. The production, overall, was superb. Now we are on to Youth American Grand Prix rehearsals. We started rehearsing earlier this fall, but the kids took time off during the last weeks of […]

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Filed Under: competitions, grades, Nutcracker, performance Tagged With: dance performance, Nutcracker, Second Stage, TDC, YAGP, Youth American Grand Prix

Life in the Dance Lane

October 16, 2009 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

In case you were wondering, I haven’t abandoned this blog. I’ve been a bit busy…first with the Jewish High Holy Days and then with my second ACL surgery in 14 years. Yes…that fall down the stairs in New York ended me up under the orthopedic surgeon’s knife on September 29th (after a preliminary visit to […]

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Filed Under: Attitude, choreography, Doing "boy stuff", grades, Partnering Tagged With: choreography track for kids, Marcie Ryken, Nutcracker, San Jose Ballet, San Jose Dance Theater, TDC

New School Year, New Dance Year, New Attitude

August 26, 2009 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Julian began school on Monday. This year he’s a sophomore. He seems to have a new attitude (Thank God!) about school, schoolwork and grades. In fact, one of his best friends and a fellow dancer told me yesterday that Julian is “a different person.” It seems he was angry at her for talking on the […]

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Filed Under: Attitude, Denise Wall, evaluations, grades, rasta thomas Tagged With: ABT evaluation, dance photos, grades, Mvment magazine, new attitudes, Nutcracker choices, NYU, rasta thomas, work ethic

And the Dance Season Comes to an End

May 28, 2009 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

I dropped Julian off for dance today and stopped for a moment to look into the studio. What a small class! And one new student! Oh, yes…the season is over, I remembered. The kids are expected to be there (but not really required), and classes are now open to the public for drop ins.  I […]

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Filed Under: grades, summer dance programs Tagged With: ABT, American Ballet Theatre, American Ballet Theatre Summer Intensive, Billy Elliot, David Alvarez, end of dance season, open dance classes, Teen Dance Company Studio 10, the Musical

Preparing for Going Solo Performance and Copellia

March 11, 2009 by ninaamir 2 Comments

Things are gearing up again. Julian has been practicing an old routine of his from a few years ago called “Hats” for solo studio performance on Thursday. We didn’t realize that he could actually perform in this event, so he didn’t prepare a solo. (We’ll know for next year.) So, he pulled out his very-successful […]

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Filed Under: conventions, dance scholarships, grades, performance, sexuality, So Your Think You can Dance Tagged With: Aristan Rinpoyla, Copellia, Going Solo, Mia Michaels, Nuvo, Remind, The Pulse

More Opportunties My Dancing Son Can't Take Advantage Of…

February 6, 2009 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Okay, the Teen Dance Company Second Stage performance has been put to bed, quite successfully I might add. I was quite impressed, if I do say so myself, with all the kids’ performances and with the student choreography in particular. I think it is amazing that the studio offers a student choreography track, and it’s […]

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Filed Under: dance injuries, grades, performances, summer dance programs Tagged With: American Ballet Theatre, Copellia, Los Gatos Ballet, Studio 10, Teen Dance Company Second Stage, writing for dance magazines

When Rumors Fly about Billy Elliot…and A Little News On Nick Lazzarini

December 23, 2008 by ninaamir 1 Comment

Oh, my! I seem to have created quite a stir with my last post. I’ve had an influx of readers since I speculated on who might be the one leaving Billy Elliot, the Musical, which recently opened on Broadway.  I admitted I was getting my information from Movmnt Magazine, and in the comments to my […]

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Filed Under: grades, So Your Think You can Dance Tagged With: alternative schooling options for dancers, Billy Elliot, home schooling for dancers, Nick Lazzarini, So You Think You Can Dance, Who's leaving Billy Elliot?

When Losing Dance Becomes a Consequence for Missed Homework Assignments and Bad Grades (and a Note on the Sexuality Issue)

December 19, 2008 by ninaamir 3 Comments

It’s the Friday before the holiday break. Normally, I’d be breathing a sigh of relief. No dance for two whole weeks! No getting up early for school!  Less driving! Less stress! No homework hassles! But no…not in this household. Instead, I’ll be managing my delinquent son’s midterm study schedule (and habits…or lack thereof) and his […]

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Filed Under: gifts for male dancers, grades, sexuality Tagged With: consequences for dancer's bad grades, dancer's bad grades, male dancer's sexuality, teasing

When Issues of Sexuality Cause Emotional Turmoil

December 16, 2008 by ninaamir 3 Comments

Well…it seems a few of Julian’s missed assignments were caused by some emotional turmoil on my poor son’s part. After much lecturing and talking and discussing – yes, I let him talk, too – Julian spilled the beans. A fellow male dancer who is not shy about admitting he is gay told Julian he thought […]

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Filed Under: grades, sexuality Tagged With: dealing with sexuality and young male dancers, nature vs. nurture and sexuality in the dance world, sexuality and young male dancers

Okay, He Can Dance, But Can He Get Good Grades?

December 14, 2008 by ninaamir 3 Comments

I’ve got to be the most frustrated mother in the world. My son can dance, and he does, but I can’t get him to get good grades, even though he can. I think we finally have managed to get Julian to work hard at dance. He’s always spent many hours at the studio – last […]

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Filed Under: grades, Uncategorized Tagged With: dancer's grades, working hard at dance

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