• Home
  • About Nina Amir
    • Rent My Brain
    • Privacy Policy
    • Terms of Service
  • Contact
  • Summer Intensive Handbook
  • Nutrition for Dancers
  • Certified High Performance Coaching
    • Certified High Performance Coaching for Dancers (GROUP)
    • Certified High Performance Coaching for Dancers (PRIVATE)

My Son Can Dance

One Mom's Musings About Boys in the Dance World

It’s Official: My Dancin’ Boy is a Professional Dancer!

July 6, 2012 by Nina 4 Comments

Signing a contract with a dance companyIt’s official. My dancin’ boy is a professional dancer! Really.

The  contract came in the mail–in German–from Semperoper Ballett. We put it through a translator online. Julian signed the original copy, which had all the official signatures on it already. He took it to the post office and put it in the mail. Done.

The day before he mailed the contract, July 4th, my husband when to the Semperoper Ballett website and found an announcement of the new apprentices. Julian’s name was there. And…he is now listed as part of the company under apprentices; you can find him here. No photo yet. Maybe they will take one while he is there.

He applied for student housing. He is studying German using Rosetta Stone. He seems to have gotten his body back in some decent shape after two weeks off and several chiropractic visits. He has some massage scheduled.

Julian found out that he will get a flat monthly salary rather than pay-per-performance. Yay! Not much, but something. Because apprentices have a school affiliation as well through Palucca Hochschule für Tanz Dresden, he also was awarded a scholarship. Double yay! He may have enough to live on. Wouldn’t that be lovely? We won’t have to support him? He has student insurance, too. Wowie.

On Sunday, he’s off to San Francisco for the San Francisco Ballet Summer Intensive. That seems sort of weird and like a mute point, especially since they know he’s accepted something else but he’s still on the so-called “watch list” for the trainee program. Whatever. He’s supposed to talk to them when it’s over…find out how interested they might be later on. It’s good to get seen by as many companies as possible. You never know when you might need an audition in the future.

And me…well…I’m stuffing my emotions for now. I’m excited for him and very sad for me to have him go so far away–and where I can’t see him dance. He’ll be there dancing professionally, and I’ll be unable to see but a few performances a year, if I’m lucky. I need to schedule all sorts of things for work–talks related to my book, and I’m afraid when he gets some big role, I won’t be able to get to Germany time wise or money wise. And I’m just enormously sad to see my 18 year old go so far away from home for so long. Eleven months. That’s a long time. So I just have to cough up the money to get there–whether or not my husband keep traveling to Germany or not.

Am I ready? Not really. No. Probably a good thing his dad will be taking him over to Germany (like when he went to SAB). No crying mom hovering around as he takes his first job, right?

Is he ready? Who knows emotionally or developmentally. But I’m his mom; I am biased. He seems excited. From a dance perspective, the School of American Ballet says so. Willy Burmann also sent me a lovely text telling me “how wonderful” Julian looked on his last day in New York. That’s high praise from a man who teaches so many principles and soloists. Peter Martins, while not interested in having him in his company said he was “a beautiful dancer” and that he “should be dancing.” So, I suppose he is ready for a professional career.

Too late to go back now! He’s entered the realm of professional.

Photo courtesy of nongpimmy

 

Don’t miss any part of Julian’s journey or mine–or any great information about how your son can become a professional dancer, too. Receive every single post of My Son Can Dance in your email box! Simply enter your email address below: Delivered by FeedBurner

Twitter This
Usuario: Password: cargando...

Filed Under: professional dance Tagged With: Palucca, professional dancer, San Francisco Ballet School, Semperoper Ballett

Comments

  1. Immashel says

    July 17, 2012 at 7:28 am

    So exciting for you, Julian and all your family too. It seems so young for him to be that far away but that’s the life for a lot of ballet dancers I suppose. I think it is good he is at SFB SI as not only will he have the benefit of three weeks of intensive training ( important before he starts in Germany) but as you say he will be able to network etc . Congratulations again

  2. tDP says

    August 4, 2012 at 3:16 am

    oh, wonderful! Sounds as if things are really falling into place. (so-to-speak)
    Congratulations on Julian’s contract-signing!!

    As i will surely be in Dresden a few times during the next season, I may have a chance to see a performance, perhaps even one in which your son is dancing! Cool!

  3. Nina says

    August 4, 2012 at 8:08 pm

    If you do, please let me know what you see and how he looks!!!

  4. George Ou says

    August 27, 2012 at 2:52 am

    I’m sure you are a very proud mommy. It’s a very long shot to make it in this business and your son did it.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

CommentLuv badgeShow more posts

The Dancer's Mom: Nina Amir

My Dancin' Son: Julian Amir Lacey

Search

MYSCD

Click here to join the Facebook Community!

Have questions?
Need support?

Rent my dancin’ mom brain!

https://mysoncandance.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/Fotolia_31175717_V_S.mp4
Click here to Purchase on Amazon.com

Recent Posts

  • What You Need to Become a World-Class Dancer
  • Don’t Blame Your Failure on Lack of Dance Talent
  • Dancing Boys Need Our Support
  • 10 Tips to Help You Push Yourself or Your Dancing Son to the Next Level
  • What is High Performance and Why Do Dancers Need It?

Recent Comments

  • BB on How to Wear a Dance Belt (Or What A Mom Might Have to Teach Her Dancing Boy…)
  • Xavier Koontz on How to Become a Good Partner (from a Ballerina’s Perspective)
  • Keith on Getting Over the Fear of Wearing Tights and a Dance Belt
  • Paul Harris on How to Wear a Dance Belt (Or What A Mom Might Have to Teach Her Dancing Boy…)
  • Paul Harris. on Getting Over the Fear of Wearing Tights and a Dance Belt

Categories

Archives

Blogs About Dance and Boys

  • 4Dancers
  • Ballet for Men
  • Boys Ballet
  • Dance Advantage
  • Dance Bloggers
  • Dance View Times
  • Great Dance
  • Tights and Tiaras

Keep Your Son Healthy with Usana Vitamins and Products

  • Usana Vitamins

I’m taking the challenge!

National Nonfiction Writing Month

© 2025 · Nina Amir