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College or No College: That’s the Quandry

March 8, 2011 by Nina 3 Comments

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Here’s a heads up to parents of young male dancers heading down the ballet route. If your son becomes a ballet boy, by which I mean a serious ballet student, beware that he likely will begin to think he should ditch the idea of heading for the hallowed halls of higher learning and head instead for the bright lights and applause of whatever stage a large, medium or small ballet company calls its home.

We were warned, it’s true. We were told that once Julian began training in a ballet program he would be pushed and enticed (via interest from ballet companies and encouragement from his teachers) towards going straight from high school into a ballet company. Sure enough, those in the know knew. I would say Julian is leaning towards the studio and the stage. (As you may know, school is not his “thing.”)

And, those in the ballet world are probably right. If you want to be a ballet dancer, the thing to do is to get a position as an apprentice or trainee (the former is preferable in my view) in a company. Or, if you are really good, audition and get a spot in a company.

After all, dancers dance.

If you want to be a contemporary ballet dancer, college may work for you–rather than against you. For instance, then a degree from Juilliard may be an asset (and it offers little to no real academics, although some conservatories do). But not necessarily if you want to go into a ballet company…then you will just have lost three or four years of your dance career to…well…an education rather than to experience.

So, beware. If you have your heart set on your son going to college, avoid a serious ballet program set up to prepare your son for a ballet job. Instead, opt for some other type of program that leans towards preparing him for a college audition.

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Filed Under: Ballet, College Tagged With: apprentice programs, ballet job vs. college, how to prepare for a ballet career, trainee programs

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  1. Golda Smith says

    April 22, 2011 at 3:13 pm

    Hi Nina,

    I found you on the Blog Squad on facebook and was enticed by your blog niche. I have a 6 yr old son and although he show no interest in ballet I think its awesome that you can give your perspective as a mom. My question is, is there a difference between girls and boys with regards to the training for someone who is serious about studying ballet?

    Golda
    Golda Smith recently posted..The Ghost In The House- One Mom Conquering Depression And Embracing A Healthier Life

  2. Nina says

    May 12, 2011 at 9:12 am

    Golda,

    Sorry it took me so long to answer this comment. I’ve been swamped. There isn’t that much difference between training boys and girls when they are younger and at the lower levels, although even then the boys can and should learn some of the “boys moves” and partnering. The basic technique in ballet remains the same. Also, too many female teachers, and even some male teachers, forget to teach the boys to dance like boys/men. They must dance in a masculine manner no matter their sexual preference. As they get to the more advanced levels, they need to learn all those fabulous turns and jumps and leaps! That is not something you learn in class with the girls. So, at some point a boy who is serious about ballet must find a program that can accommodate his training needs. I hope that answers your question.

    Thanks for following me here!

    Best wishes,

    Nina

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