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My Son Can Dance

One Mom's Musings About Boys in the Dance World

Okay, He Can Dance, But Can He Get Good Grades?

December 14, 2008 by ninaamir 3 Comments

I’ve got to be the most frustrated mother in the world. My son can dance, and he does, but I can’t get him to get good grades, even though he can. I think we finally have managed to get Julian to work hard at dance. He’s always spent many hours at the studio – last […]

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Filed Under: grades, Uncategorized Tagged With: dancer's grades, working hard at dance

You Can Now Order My Brother Can Dance© Dance-Related T-Shirts! Purchase those Christmas and Chanukah Gifts for Boys/Men Who Dance Today!

December 13, 2008 by ninaamir 4 Comments

Finally! The webpage My Brother Can Dance© page is up and running and so are the buy buttons and postage options! You can purchase those gifts for the boys and men you love who love to dance. And you should get them in time for Christmas or Chanukah if you order this week. I won’t […]

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Filed Under: dance attire, gifts for male dancers Tagged With: Christmas and Chanukah gifts for men and boys who dance, My Brother Can Dance T-shirts

Looking Forward to Nutcracker 2009 as the Curtain Comes down on the 2008 Production

December 12, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

The Nutcracker production put on by San Jose Dance Theater, which featured my son, Julian, as both Fritz and one of the two Russian dancers, has closed its curtains until next year. Yes, while others gear up, we’ve cleared the stage for the next production, put on by Ballet San Jose’s professional company (sorry friends, […]

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Filed Under: Nutcracker, Partnering, performance Tagged With: Chris Bonomo, learning to partner, Los Gatos Ballet, Mark Foehringer Dance Project, Nutcracker, Nutcracker experiences, San Jose Dance Theater, Sarah Spradlin-Bonomo

Update on T-Shirts for Boys and Men Who Dance

December 9, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Okay, folks. I couldn’t wait any longer for the proofs of the T-shirts. They should be ready later today (although I fear one of them is the wrong artwork). So, in order to let you see the designs, I’m posting some scanned in artwork now. I’ll post the actually artwork on shirts when I get […]

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Filed Under: dance attire, gifts for male dancers Tagged With: Christmas gifts for boys who dance, dance attire, Holiday gifts for boys/men who dance, t-shirts for boys and men who dance

We're Cracking Nuts to Get Ready for the Nutcracker…and to Produce T-Shirts for Holiday Gifts!

December 3, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

OMG! Julian’s Nutcracker performances are this weekend already. When he performed with Ballet San Jose, the performances were the week before Christmas (Or was it for two full weeks?), but we came back from Thanksgiving in NY to a crazy tech week schedule. Thank goodness I’ve completed my 30-day writing blog. And we don’t even just […]

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Filed Under: dance attire, Doing "boy stuff", gifts for male dancers, Nutcracker Tagged With: Christmas gifts for boys who dance, Nutcracker, t-shirts for boys and men who dance, tech week

Happy Thankgoodness No Dancing or Driving Day!

November 25, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Okay, I’ve been a bit remiss in writing this blog lately, I know. I told you, my other blog, Write Nonfiction in November, has been taking up most of my time. And I have to also write a post every now and then in my long-standing blog, As the Spirit Moves Me, as well. Then […]

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Holiday Gifts for Guys Who Dance – Got Any Ideas?

November 17, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Okay, Julian just got a notice that the studio/company is doing Secret Santas – gifts costing about $30. (The budget has gone up from the days when we bought Secret Santa gifts for $5 or less for the kids on his dance team.) I’ll reserve my feelings about this to just two comments. First, we’re […]

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Who Needs Him Anyway????

November 15, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

I just received the December issue of Dance Spirit Magazine, and I found myself intrigued and just a bit outraged by an articled titled “Who Needs Him Anyway, A Close Look at All-Girl Partnering.” I showed it to Julian, who stuck out his lower lip in a big pout of dismay. While at Ballet San […]

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Filed Under: Partnering, Uncategorized Tagged With: Dominique Kelley, focus on one form of dance or not, Partnering, same-sex partnering, tap

Be Careful What You Ask For…

November 14, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

First, let me comment on the comment from last post concerning competition. This is a hot topic. Competitions have so much going for them, and so much going against them. I want to say one thing: They shouldn’t be about how many rhinestones are on the costume. They should be about technique and performance. Period. […]

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Filed Under: competitions, Doing "boy stuff" Tagged With: competitions, costumes, doing boy stuff in dance class, doing guy stuff, getting judged on costumes, jumps, Mark Foehringer, performance, Ramon Moreno, technique

Is Competition Good for Technique?

November 10, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

I’d like to write a short post based on a comment by Nichelle Strzepek at http://danceadvantage.net.   She read my last post on making boys dance slowly to learn the basics, and said the following: “I have found it particularly difficult to impress the importance of learning to do things correctly with competitive dancers (again, my […]

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Getting Boys to Dance Slowly When They Want to Dance Fast

November 7, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Julian has been working really hard in all his dance classes, and this week he began taking the pointe class on Thursdays, although he is not doing pointe but rather “boy stuff.” I watched his jazz class on Wednesday night at Studio 10, and I was amazed at the progress he is making there. And […]

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Dance Evaluations and Lessons Learned

November 3, 2008 by ninaamir 1 Comment

It’s amazing how far a little bit of communication goes to soothe concerns, ease bad feelings and boost your sense of well being. As you might have guessed, Julian’s evaluation at Teen Dance Company went quite well and helped not only him feel better about what he’s doing there and how his teachers are dealing […]

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Filed Under: behavior in dance class, evaluations, Uncategorized, use of muscles in ballet Tagged With: Brian Fisher, communication, dance evaluations, Darlene Castro-Easterling, men's ballet movement, musicality, Teen Dance Company

Photos are Up, Evaluations are Coming

October 31, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Things have been pretty quiet on the dance scene this week. The kids got their photos back on Tuesday and were SOOOO excited. They were displayed on the wall – they always put the whole company’s photos up for the whole year along with a poster of the whole company together. I have to admit […]

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