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One Mom's Musings About Boys in the Dance World

Holiday Gifts for Guys Who Dance – Got Any Ideas?

November 17, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Okay, Julian just got a notice that the studio/company is doing Secret Santas – gifts costing about $30. (The budget has gone up from the days when we bought Secret Santa gifts for $5 or less for the kids on his dance team.) I’ll reserve my feelings about this to just two comments. First, we’re […]

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Filed Under: dance attire, gifts for male dancers Tagged With: gifts for male dancers

Who Needs Him Anyway????

November 15, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

I just received the December issue of Dance Spirit Magazine, and I found myself intrigued and just a bit outraged by an articled titled “Who Needs Him Anyway, A Close Look at All-Girl Partnering.” I showed it to Julian, who stuck out his lower lip in a big pout of dismay. While at Ballet San […]

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Filed Under: Partnering, Uncategorized Tagged With: Dominique Kelley, focus on one form of dance or not, Partnering, same-sex partnering, tap

Be Careful What You Ask For…

November 14, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

First, let me comment on the comment from last post concerning competition. This is a hot topic. Competitions have so much going for them, and so much going against them. I want to say one thing: They shouldn’t be about how many rhinestones are on the costume. They should be about technique and performance. Period. […]

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Filed Under: competitions, Doing "boy stuff" Tagged With: competitions, costumes, doing boy stuff in dance class, doing guy stuff, getting judged on costumes, jumps, Mark Foehringer, performance, Ramon Moreno, technique

Is Competition Good for Technique?

November 10, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

I’d like to write a short post based on a comment by Nichelle Strzepek at http://danceadvantage.net.   She read my last post on making boys dance slowly to learn the basics, and said the following: “I have found it particularly difficult to impress the importance of learning to do things correctly with competitive dancers (again, my […]

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Filed Under: competitions, performance, technique Tagged With: competitions, performing, technique

Getting Boys to Dance Slowly When They Want to Dance Fast

November 7, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Julian has been working really hard in all his dance classes, and this week he began taking the pointe class on Thursdays, although he is not doing pointe but rather “boy stuff.” I watched his jazz class on Wednesday night at Studio 10, and I was amazed at the progress he is making there. And […]

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Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: how boys move, slowing male dancers down

Dance Evaluations and Lessons Learned

November 3, 2008 by ninaamir 1 Comment

It’s amazing how far a little bit of communication goes to soothe concerns, ease bad feelings and boost your sense of well being. As you might have guessed, Julian’s evaluation at Teen Dance Company went quite well and helped not only him feel better about what he’s doing there and how his teachers are dealing […]

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Filed Under: behavior in dance class, evaluations, Uncategorized, use of muscles in ballet Tagged With: Brian Fisher, communication, dance evaluations, Darlene Castro-Easterling, men's ballet movement, musicality, Teen Dance Company

Photos are Up, Evaluations are Coming

October 31, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Things have been pretty quiet on the dance scene this week. The kids got their photos back on Tuesday and were SOOOO excited. They were displayed on the wall – they always put the whole company’s photos up for the whole year along with a poster of the whole company together. I have to admit […]

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Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: dance evaluations, Halloween, head shots

I've Got A Male Dancer, So Treat Him Like A Prince

October 28, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

My husband and I were discussing my son’s treatment at his current dance studio. It’s been a constant source of conversation since September, and with student evalutations coming up this weekend, it’s a hot topic. I cautioned him not to sound like one of those parents who think their son should get special treatment just […]

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Filed Under: Denise Wall, Uncategorized Tagged With: dance evaluations, special treatment for boys who dance, student evaluations

Books for Young Boys Who Dance

October 25, 2008 by ninaamir 6 Comments

Recently, I came across a list of books for young boys who dance (while trying to see if I could find my blog on Google by searching for “boys dance”…to no avail). I never knew there were so many books available for young boys who dance. Julian is much too old for them now, but I […]

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Filed Under: Resources Tagged With: books, books for boys who dance, books on male dancers, list of books for young male dancers

No One Likes to Change, Least of All Boys

October 23, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

If you thought I disappeared into the Internet ethers, you’re wrong. I was tied to my keyboard by another writing project. I was asked last minute and given three days to write a cover piece for Movmnt magazine on magician Criss Angel’s newest collaboration with Cirque du Soleil and choreographer Wade Robson. It’s an amazing […]

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Filed Under: Ballet, behavior in dance class, Uncategorized Tagged With: ballet styles, ballet technique, Billy Elliot, change

Ballet Corrections: Just One Person's Preference?

October 18, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Julian has been studying ballet since he was 3 years old. That means this boy has been in ballet tights for 11 years. For the last three years he was enrolled in an intensive program at Ballet San Jose School that required him to take three hours of ballet at a minimum six days a […]

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Filed Under: Ballet, barre work Tagged With: ballet technique, dance style

Talk, Talk, Talk, Dance, Dance, Dance

October 17, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Despite the fact that Julian hasn’t had much luck over the years with friends, he’s a very social creature. Being a dancer, has made it hard for him to fit in socially, however. Most young male dancers experience this. For a really social kid like Julian, being accepted anywhere makes him very excited. And when […]

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Filed Under: behavior in dance class, Uncategorized Tagged With: talking in class

Patience: A Virtue Lost on Boys Who Dance

October 15, 2008 by ninaamir Leave a Comment

Julian has never been one to wait for anything. Like most boys – or maybe kids in general – patience represents a virtue lost on him. He rushes headlong through his dance education every chance he gets.  He is impatient. He wants to move up, move forward.  Luckily, his teachers tend to slow him down. […]

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Filed Under: Denise Wall, use of muscles in ballet Tagged With: class selection, Denise Wall, use of muscles

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